The impotence has at least 2 profiles which need different strategies
1- The fear of sporadic lost of erection induce by the wearing condom process. Rare but the following "humiliation" that the male feel in such circumstance can make him refusing the condom during all the rest of his life. He will use excuses like "no feeling", "You do not trust me?", "I am negative!", "I am allergic" etc. etc.
2- The lack of hardness of the penis. (see bellow)
- Inform the girls about that fear of men. And teach them how to deal with such fear ( including the way to heal the problem when it happen and the way to wear by herself the condom on the penis)
- Reduce the level of stress by reducing possible humiliation associate with such failure. The concept of virility should be update: "fake man" is not the man who has such sporadic accident, but the coward who refuse the condom because his fear of such accident.
- Emphasize the fact that relax conversation between partner before and during intercourse's heals nearly all "non-physiological" sexual problems. But sexual maturity is need to allows such conversation and that is a more broad spectrum topic..
- Attack the man who refuse condom: slogan such "Only cowards refuse condom" or "a man who refuse to wear a condom is not a true male" can induces shame when refusing condom and force to accept the right attitude.
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The impotence has at least 2 profiles which need different strategies
1- The fear of a sporadic lost of erection... (see supra)
2- The lack of hardness which make the condom apparently "too little" (impossible to unroll correctly a condom on soft penis ...but no problem to wear the same condom on a fist!)
Causes of such kind of impotence can be
- Physiological and psychological diseases
- Age
- Confusion between "real sexual desire" and "obsession"
- Too many sexual activities
- Promote medical support (erectile drugs, anxiolytics...)
- Promote psychological support (to accept consequences of age, to reduce obsession, etc)
- Promote reduction of sexual activities (no sex during 2-3 days before any intercourse...)
- Teach to woman how to wear a condom on a weak penis (see illustration on www.prevaids.org)
- Teach to woman (and man) the real cause of such kind of impotence...
Posters about 2 kinds of impotency and HIV (En) - Same posters in Th
Audio poster about sporadic impotence (en) "sprungmattres"
Click here for another example